Week by week

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Friday, April 23, 2010

Hurray for the Strawberry Patch!

Every year we wait all April long for the strawberry patch to open. This morning I called to see if they were open and they were, so as soon as Nathan came home from his night shift I made him take us over there. We haven't gone anywhere all week as I'm not supposed to drive yet and we were all excited to finally have strawberries for our sandwiches, cereal, and French Toast.

"We're off on our way to the strawberry patch!" This is the song the kids sing when we're going somewhere fun. They substitute other words like "airport" depending on where we're going.




Looking at the Peacock





The kids love to wear their red or green to the strawberry patch and were thrilled to even find a little strawberry outfit for Kaitlyn.

While I was nursing Kaitlyn the kids melted a bowl of chocolate chips and then the older four proceeded to do an assembly line of washing and hulling and slicing the berries in the kitchen. When they were done we found Thomas had been helping himself to the chocolate, eating it with his hands.

We love strawberry season!


Kaitlyn's Story

I forgot that I haven't written about Kaitlyn's birth and a few people have been asking about it, so here is a brief rendition.
Nathan is working nights this month and since I've always gone into labor at night, we were praying that I wouldn't this time. A few of my labors have been so fast that there wouldn't be time for him to come home to get me and there would be the issue of finding someone to stay with the kids. Also, Kylie was really hoping I'd go into labor when she wasn't asleep so that she could be apart of it. For the most part, our prayers were answered. I went into labor while Nathan was at work, but the kids were awake and I had plenty of time for him to come get me. Tuesday morning I woke up and realized I was sleeping fitfully and maybe I was in early labor. I wasn't really sure because I wasn't having contractions yet, just feeling funny, but I called Nathan anyway. It was just after 7:00am. He said he'd come home right away. I started to add things to the suitcase and then called my friend who had offered to watch the kids if I went into labor before my sister got here. (Lori was coming on Thursday.) She said I could bring them over, so I went upstairs and told the kids, who were playing Monopoly. They were super excited and got ready quickly. We all got in the car and waited for Nathan, who got home at 7:30. I called the doctor's office and they paged the midwife, DeEtte, who is only on-call on Tuesdays. (My doctor is on-call the rest of the days, but I love them both.) Nathan gave me a blessing and we left at 7:35. We drove to Kara's, but got stuck in a lot of rush hour traffic. We dropped the kids off and went to the hospital, arriving around 8:10. We checked in and the admittance rushed us right through, knowing we were coming and remembering I go fast. I was a little embarassed about all the attention because this time I wasn't going fast.
When I got to my room DeEtte was sitting in the rocking chair, just waiting for me. I was embarassed about that too. A doctor has only made it to one delivery in the last 6, so to have her there before me was a surprise. She said, "Change into a gown, I'll break your water, and you can have this baby!" That sounded easy to me, so I did. I changed, answered some of the medical questions for the nurse, and then she broke my water at 8:30. She said I could push anytime, but I'd only had a few contractions so far and it didn't seem time yet. So we just sat and waited and chatted. She said when she heard I was in labor she sent her baby to day care with her husband and had brought her 6 year old with her so that she wouldn't miss the delivery. I was embarassed about that and felt pressured to hurry so that she could take her daughter to school. I kept saying, "I don't know what's taking this baby so long." The others were much faster. (Spencer was born 6 minutes after we got to the hospital, only 30 minutes after labor started.) Finally I felt like pushing and little Kaitlyn was born at 8:40am.
I was so happy to hear her cry and hold her and nurse her. After losing Julianne, I wanted a baby so bad and knew I wouldn't take it for granted again. I think Nathan felt the same way. We really enjoyed our time with Kaitlyn in the hospital. She was in our room the whole time so we got to see her weighed, footprinted, and bathed. Then we got to spend a lot of time with her as Kara watched the kids till 1pm and another family let the kids spend the night there and the next morning until we came home from the hospital. We're so grateful for good friends and all the help they gave us. It was the most peaceful hospital stay I've had.
Thursday my sister, Lori, came from Tennesee and was a huge help until Monday. Nathan has had a week off work thanks to friends willing to cover for him, so we've been very blessed. It has been a great recovery for me and a fun week for us as a family. The kids loved playing outside with Aunt Lori and having time off school. This week they've been happy to play in their bedrooms or outside and we've relaxed a lot. Things are going great and we couldn't be happier. We're so grateful for all the blessings we've received.




Holding Kaitlyn

We love our Kaitlyn Baby
Thomas

Alexis


Spencer

Madalyn

Kylie

Mommy

Daddy

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Baby Kaitlyn

I've never felt like I take great pictures of our newborns; they just don't come out as cute as the baby really is. But for my family who lives across the country, here are some pictures of Baby Kaitlyn.

Asleep on my lap




A funny face, but Kylie wanted a picture of Kaitlyn wearing the dress she bought for her to wear on her first Sunday to church.



Hanging out on the couch








Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Our Newest Baby Girl

Yesterday morning at 8:40 our newest little baby girl, Kaitlyn, was born into this world. She was 8 lbs. 1 oz. and 20" long. Everything went perfectly and we're both doing great.
Here are some pictures I just uploaded. Nathan is ready for bed, so I'll probably add to the commentary in the next couple of days. But I wanted to get the news out. We feel so blessed and are just thrilled with Baby Kaitlyn.

Daddy helping deliver (He's wearing the tie; I called him at work when I went into labor.)

I can't believe she's here!

That glorious feel of a baby in your arms.


The Holladay Family

Four Girls!


Six kids. I love saying that.

Kaitlyn Holladay

Going home.

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Easter Weekend

Lining up at the top of the stairs to go down to get the candy.

Lexi reaching for jelly beans


Dying eggs
Easter bunny and Easter eggs are our Saturday traditions.
I hope nobody minds a cemetary picture, but somehow these were the only Easter pictures we got. Sunday morning we went to put flowers on Julianne's grave and then went to the church to watch conference. The rest of the sessions we watched at home.
The day was beautiful---mid 80's and blue skies. I'm not sure why the picture turned out hazy.




We ate our Easter feast between sessions.

Duck Pond

Last year on Good Friday we went to the duck pond for the first time. I enjoyed it so much that I wanted to do it again this year. Nathan joined us for lunch and we had a very relaxing time. The weather was gorgeous and the kids were so cute.






The girls each wanted their picture taken with a flower blossom.
Kylie

Madalyn



Squealing with delight at the two turtles they saw popping their heads out of the water. They also loved seeing the bright orange fish.

After we walked around the pond Nathan and I sat in the shade and watched the kids sit by the edge of the pond. They were playing this game where everyone had a handful of tall grass and they held up a piece for each fish they saw. They were constantly changing the number of pieces as the fish would swim away and then back again. We heard them all calling, "I see two! I see five!" It was fun listening to them. Kylie is the instigator of such games and she is always playing something wherever we are.

Monday, April 5, 2010

A Day in the Life of a Holladay

Last Monday I thought it would be fun to diary our day. If you're curious what a typical day is like in the Holladay household, read on. If you don't care, skip this post.

7:00am. I hear the kids walking around and talking upstairs, but because I'd awakened a lot in the night because of a thunderstorm, I lay in bed and doze. I hear Nathan getting ready for work and an Easter Bunny Thomas got from nursery yesterday playing loudly. At 7:40 I get up and say my prayer. At 7:45 I go out to the living room where we have family prayer and say good-bye to Nathan, who is doing a geriatrics rotation and goes to work at 8 or 8:30. (Nice!) The kids and I eat breakfast until 8:15. Afterward the 3 older kids clear the table, wash it off, or sweep the floor according to their chore for the day. They do this quickly while I straighten the kitchen and start the dishwasher. The kids run upstairs and get dressed, make their beds and come back downstairs to start the music at exactly 8:30. For P.E. this winter we've been dancing to music either on CD or the songs on the digital piano. This morning the girls come down in their swirlly dancing dresses and turn on the music on the piano. They push aside the kitchen table and chairs and dance. I read the Church News while I ride my exercise bike in the dining room and watch them dance. The boys don't dress up, but they dance too. At 9:00 P.E. is over and the kids start their school. Kylie does geography and Madalyn does math. Usually I hop in the shower, but Spencer and Alexis, who are doing math, are asking me for help. I go back and forth between them and then take a shower at 9:30 and get ready for the day.
At 10:00 Kylie does French, Spencer reads his chapter book, Madalyn does spelling, and Thomas looks at the Carolina bird field guide book. (He likes it because it's a cute little book.) I grade Madalyn's math and then read with Alexis. She reads outloud to me while I cross-stitch her stocking next to her.
At 10:30 Kylie goes upstairs to the reading spot (a loft that overlooks the living room) to read her chapter book, Spencer comes downstairs and does his language arts book. Madalyn does French on the computer, but then the program is not responding so she works on her lake report instead. Alexis continues to read to me. Thomas isn't looking at his book anymore and I wonder what he's up to but I'm too comfortable on the couch sewing to check on him. At 11:00 he comes downstairs with different pants on and I know he's been playing in the sink, which is his new favorite activity. (He climbs on the bathroom sink and pulls the drain and plays with the water.)
At 11:15 we all get our lunch. Spencer is the first one to make his lunch while the other kids are wrapping up their school work and he makes himself a peanut butter sandwich with sliced strawberries on it and makes a half for Thomas. (Yes, I let him slice his strawberries, but he uses a butter knife.) I come into the kitchen and think that looks good so I make one for Alexis and one for me. Kylie makes nachos for herself. Madalyn finally leaves the computer and comes over for prayer as we're all sitting down to eat. She eyes our tasty sandwiches and makes herself one. Spencer is done eating his and makes himself a plate of nachos too. We all have apples, Sunchips, and milk with our sandwiches.
At 11:45 we clean up the lunch. The kids do the same clear, wash, and sweep chores. Kylie unloads the dishwasher for Madalyn who goes back to finishing her report on the computer.
At 11:55 we watch CNN student news for our current event. I sew as I watch and the kids take notes. Then we all talk about what we learned and what was interesting.
12:15 Kylie goes to the computer to work on her lake report. Madalyn sits at the table and copies her lake report notes onto her final report that is a paper with pictures printed on it. Spencer is supposed to be writing in his journal but he can't find it so he practices the piano, even though I tell him to keep looking for it. (He'll play the piano to get out of anything.) Alexis dictates her journal entry to me and I write it down.
At 12:45 the 4 older kids make Easter cards at the kitchen table. I sew on the stocking because I'm on a roll, but have to get up when Thomas asks me to turn the light on for him to go potty and then he joins the other kids at the table.
At 1:00 the kids are all working on their Easter cards and I take advantage of a free computer to work on my report of Lake Tanganyika, the 2nd deepest lake in the world. I print it out at 1:30 and take Thomas upstairs and tuck him in for nappy time. Then I straighten the living room and help Spencer, who is on the computer doing his lake report on the Dead Sea.
At 2:00 the kids are done with their card making and clean up the art supplies. Kylie reads outloud to us from a history book called "Unlikely Heroes," which is a compliation of stories of people who did heroic things during the Revoluntionary war that are not well-known. I sew on the stocking while I listen and the other kids color in their coloring books. Very relaxing.
2:35-- We are finished reading and done with school for the day. The kids take the phones upstairs and play house. They discuss where they left off on Saaturday--that it was lunchtime and just got back from taking their babies to the doctor. Our phones can intercom each other, so all afternoon I hear them calling each other and telling them how high their baby's fever is or that they're taking their 6 year-old to ballet class.
I'm still comfortable on the couch, so I sew until 2:50, thinking what I should do next since Thomas is napping and the other kids are playing happily. I could keep sewing or scrapbook or make my treats since I am treats for FHE tonight. I decide to make my treats since the kitchen is empty. I start making peanut butter balls, which I'm going to shapen into Easter eggs. I put in the butter, peanut butter and graham cracker crumbs and realize we don't have enough powdered sugar to make a whole batch so I take out some of the butter and peanut butter and put it in a container in the fridge for another time. I finish making a small batch and shape them into 9 big eggs and put them in the freezer to harden.
At 3:15 the kids come in the kitchen for a snack and grab rice cakes, pretzels, Cheeze-its, and raisins from the pantry and take it outside on the front porch. At 3:30 I am done with my treat and cleaning up. I check my e-mail until 4:00 when Thomas wakes up. I start printing pictures off the computer to scrapbook and work on this until 4:30 when a friend down the street, Jordan, comes over, asking for any kids to play. All of the kids but Thomas want to go over, so they all get ready and walk down the street to her house. I keep printing out pictures while Thomas watches part of Cars.
At 5:00 the kids come back home with Jordan. I keep printing out photos until 5:30 when I finally pull myself away to cook the ground turkey in the microwave to make sloppy joes for dinner. We're going to have a nice pork chop dinner tomorrow for Nathan's birthday, so I decide to do simple tonight. While the meat is cooking I dip the peanut butter eggs in melted chocolate and put them in the freezer to harden. Meanwhile I keep the printer going, printing photos. When the meat is done I make the sloppy joes.
At 6:00 Jordan's dad calls for her, so she leaves. Spencer sets the table and opens a can of fruit. I open a can of corn. We sit down to eat. At 6:25 we clean up. Alexis and Kylie have been busy since they came home from Jordan's planning an activity for tonight, so they finish planning it. I print off a few more pages of scrapbooking photos while Spencer reads the Friend. Thomas is upstairs singing "The Morning Breaks" really loud and Madalyn is reading in the reading spot. Usually we start FHE by now, but Nathan is conductor and asks us to wait for him. He comes home at 6:50pm. He grabs his dinner left on the counter for him and starts FHE. Alexis is song and chooses "Christ the Lord Is Risen Today." Spencer is prayer. We read scriptures and then Madalyn does an excellent Easter lesson she has prepared all by herself. She has pictures of the events that happen the week of Easter starting with the Last Supper and asks the children to hold them up while she talks about what is happening in each picture. Her voice is quiet, but she knows all the facts. She bears her testimony at the end and I feel proud of her. She'll do a great job doing sharing time someday. :)
Kylie is activity and has made these paper eggs with chicks inside glued to popcicle sticks. We color them for activity. Then the time is turned to me for treats. The kids go get their pajamas on while I put it on the table. This is the tradition. I put the plate of peanut butter eggs on the table along with milk and cups and everyone comes in to see what it is. We eat treats, have family prayer and tuck the kids in at 8:15. Nathan tucks Spencer in while I tuck the girls in. Thomas stays up until Spencer falls asleep so that they don't talk.
From 8:30-9 Nathan shows me some e-mails he got from people in the chemistry department regarding his research plans for next year. He's really excited about it and we talk while I sew on the stocking. Thomas is playing in my room with his cars, where he loves to drive them along my bed. I tuck him in a little after 9 and then scrapbook a little. Nathan is e-mailing the professors back, arranging times to meet with them to discuss research plans. At 10:30 we read scriptures then go to bed shortly after 11.

So there is our typical Monday. Hope it wasn't too boring. If nothing else, at least I have it recorded for journaling purposes. Maybe someday I'll want to go back and see what our day was like.